Are you a siamese twin? Not literally siamese twin of course... I observed serveral "siamese twins" around me. they listen to whatever to their other half say. they follow their instructions. they go wherever their twin go. yes, they have their opinions, but seldom voice it. why? afraid their twin will frown at it? don't want to invite trouble? these people don't pursue their heart's desires. (yes, very cliched...) They want to blend in with the crowd and appear unnoticed. this is the recessive twin. (if there's such a term. i know dominant twin is a real term) Recessive twins are very dependent on their dominant twins. They are scared of them. They need them for company. the experssions on their faces mirrors their twins. they have no other good friends besides their twin. Sometimes they may hate their twin. but never will they show it nor tell their twin. they are just the follower of their twin. or to put it more crudely, their shadow.

yet on the surface, those pairs of twins just seem like best friends.